Moments

“You can destroy a country, but you can’t destroy parent willing to do whatever they can to keep their kids happy – despite the world around them.”

Baby kai

Baby kai was four months old yesterday, I can barely believe it. Kai is the sweetest happiest baby I have ever seen he loves to be snuggled and cuddled. He was our day of sunshine and our hope during the lock down and even now we get pictures of his amily little face everyday to…

No matter

Sometimes, no matter how nice you are, how kind you are, how caring you are, how loving you are, it just isn’t enough for somepeople

True love

When you are truly in love with someone you don’t really have to look for much, except for the love that they give you. When we care about somebody it is best to instead of criticizing them for their faults, that you help make their weaknesses their strengths, that you help turn their biggest mistakes…

Extreme independence

The inability to receive support from others is a trauma response. Your “I don’t need anyone, I’ll just do it all myself” conditioning is a survival tactic. And you needed it to shield your heart from abuse, neglect, betrayal, and disappointment from those who could not or would not be there for you. From the…

Burnt toast

One evening my mother made dinner after a hard day’s work. She put a plate of eggs, salad and burnt toast in front of my father … I immediately noticed, the burnt toast …. And, I was waiting to see if he was going to complain about it, but my father started to eat them,…

5 things to quit

Arent these things hard to quit sometimes. I found giving up a bottle of wine at the weekend easier 😂 #bekindtoyourself #loveyourself #youareenough

Be happy for others

I am very lucky that i have surrounded myself with people who can be happy for me. I remember a time in my life when i got a promotion in work and my friend cried…it puts an awful damper on your asachievement. I remember passing a college exam and the same friend cried…i remember when…

Life goes on

Im too old to worry about who likes me or who dislikes me. I have more important things to do. If you love me, i love you. If you support me i support you. If you hate me i don’t care. Life goes on with or without you