Im in the process of building this life for myself. Working my dream job, attending college to better my future. My marriage isnt perfect but its perfect for me. A lot of work goes into living your dream but its worth it. If i can do it anyone can do it. Just remember anything worth having doesnt come easy. Right now im working 7 days a week, trying to keep up with my college work, keep a home, spend time with family and friends and of course spend quality time with my husband and make sure my fur baby and fish are well looked after. Its a lot for one person to do but it is totally worth it.